{"id":4577,"date":"2023-11-22T16:19:49","date_gmt":"2023-11-22T23:19:49","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.kairosphotos.com\/blog\/?page_id=4577"},"modified":"2023-11-22T16:19:50","modified_gmt":"2023-11-22T23:19:50","slug":"manila-dead","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/www.kairosphotos.com\/blog\/manila-dead\/","title":{"rendered":"Living with the dead in Manila"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

Mission Giving supports education for stigmatized children<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

By Paul Jeffrey<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Published in <\/em>Response magazine, October 2014.<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Manila\u2019s North Cemetery is the oldest graveyard in the Philippines, and its tombstones boast prominent names from the country\u2019s literary and political history. War heroes and former presidents are buried there. Yet between the tombs and inside the expansive mausoleums thrives a community of the living, people who call the cemetery their home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Perhaps a million people are buried in the cemetery, which dates to the 19th<\/sup> Century. Yet today as many as 10,000 people live among them, sleeping and eating on the crypts, operating small stores, restaurants and even Internet shops inside the mausoleums. City officials have at times tried to expel the living, but many have agreements with the relatives of the dead allowing them to remain as caretakers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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In the capital of the Philippines, Aramay Calma hangs laundry over tombs in the Manila North Cemetery, where she lives. Hundreds of poor families live here, dwelling in and between the tombs and mausoleums of the city’s wealthy. They are often discriminated against, and many of their children don’t go to school because they’re too hungry to study and they’re often called “vampires” by their classmates. With support from United Methodist Women, KKFI provides classroom education and meals to kids from the cemetery at a nearby United Methodist Church.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The children of the cemetery face special hardships, especially stigma. \u201cOther children abuse them, saying that because they live in the cemetery they must be cooking the remains of the dead for dinner. The other children call them vampires,\u201d said Vicente Eliver, a social worker for the Kapatiran-Kaunlaran Foundation (KKFI), a longtime partner of United Methodist Women in the Philippines.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Stigma and poverty combine to keep many cemetery children out of school, so in 2011 KKFI launched an alternative educational program aimed at North Cemetery children who had dropped out of school. It approached nearby Santa Mesa Heights United Methodist Church, which gladly offered its sanctuary as a classroom. With support from United Methodist Women Mission Giving, KKFI trained teachers and began classes with 50 kids from elementary through high school age.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Four-year old Salia Suleman walks through the Manila North Cemetery on her way to preschool. <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

They soon realized they needed to provide food.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cMost of the kids coming to class had not eaten breakfast, and they had a hard time concentrating, so we added a meal to the experience,\u201d said Nancy Nicolas, KKFI\u2019s executive director.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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In the capital of the Philippines, a man and woman rest in their home in the Manila North Cemetery. <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

They also soon added a preschool program, with KKFI providing a jeepney that serves as a school bus for the littlest. Ms. Nicolas says the idea emerged in part from a visit she made to a nearby orphanage that KKFI supported.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cI learned that some of children in the orphanage had come from the Manila North Cemetery. The program was supposed to be for abandoned children, but we discovered that many of the kids had parents, yet they didn\u2019t have the resources to care for them or to send them to school, even though public schools are supposed to be free. So instead of being in school, little children were roaming the streets selling flowers or cigarettes, or being passed off as orphans,\u201d she said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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In the capital of the Philippines, a girl who lives in the Manila North Cemetery enjoys a moment in class at the Santa Mesa Heights United Methodist Church. Hundreds of poor families live in the cemetery, inside and between the tombs and mausoleums of the city’s wealthy. They are often discriminated against, and many of their children don’t go to school because they’re too hungry to study and they’re often called “vampires” by their classmates. With support from United Methodist Women, KKFI provides classroom education and meals to kids from the cemetery at this church.<\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Nicolas says one limiting factor in the children\u2019s development is the clash between their aspirations and the reality of urban life in the Philippines.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cIf you ask the children about their dreams, they say they want to finish their education, get a job, and move their family out of the cemetery. They almost all say that. But their parents say they\u2019re better off in the cemetery than in a squatters area,\u201d Nicolas said.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Municipal authorities have come up with schemes to relocate the cemetery residents elsewhere, especially as an Asia Pacific Economic Cooperation (APEC) summit approaches in 2015 and city officials look to cleanse public places of the unsightly poor, but they\u2019ve failed to convince many in the cemetery to move out.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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In the capital of the Philippines, ten-year old Jobert Rio Florido eats with his grandmother Rodelin Carillo in a mausoleum that is their family home in the Manila North Cemetery. <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe were given a place to relocate, but it was not developed. It was way up in the mountains. There was nothing there and it was far from any work. Fortunately, we looked at the place before we signed, because it was just a trick. So no one went. We had to fight for our right to stay,\u201d said Tita Villarosa, head of Samahang Mangagawa at Tagapangalaga sa Norte\u2013an association of tomb caretakers.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

The plight of the cemetery residents isn\u2019t unique in Manila, where roughly 43 percent of the population lives in informal settlements, according to a 2011 report from the Asian Development Bank. The fast-growing and dense population has created a massive housing shortage, meaning that poor urban families must fend for themselves, cobbling together housing wherever they can–along canals, under bridges, beside highways, even among the dead. Yet for many, conditions in the cemetery are preferable to other options available to the poor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cWe\u2019re better off here than we\u2019d be living in the streets,\u201d said Ms. Villarosa, who moved into the cemetery 20 years ago when her husband lost his job when the company where he worked closed its operations. \u201cThat job fed our four kids and paid for their studies, so without it we were in trouble. I cried because I didn\u2019t know what to do. But I had in-laws living here and they invited us to come try it out.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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In the capital of the Philippines, children watch television in their home in the Manila North Cemetery. <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Like most residents, Ms. Villarosa\u2019s family earns a small income by caring for graves, keeping them clean and occasionally painting them. She says the common compensation is 50 pesos a month per tomb (a little more than one dollar). Many families care for 20 to 30 tombs. That\u2019s not enough to survive on, so many men in the cemetery work on construction crews, while many women do laundry or work as nannies for middle class families outside. And throughout the cemetery, enterprising residents have turned their tombs into a variety of businesses, including sari-sari stores, the ubiquitous Philippine variety store that sells everything from rice noodles to batteries. Several funerals a day are conducted in the cemetery, and children can earn a few cents by helping to carry coffins. Other residents work exhuming bones out of crypts where five years have passed without a deceased person\u2019s family paying the yearly rent.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A jumbled network of pirated wires provides most residents with electricity, though often at higher rates than legal customers would pay on the outside. There is no sewage system. Water comes from wells, thought those who can afford it prefer to buy water from the outside the cemetery for cooking and drinking.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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A girl in the Manila North Cemetery. <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

Yet Ms. Villarosa, a United Methodist, says the biggest problem with living in the cemetery is the widespread stigma.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cLots of people have the idea that we\u2019re all kidnappers, thieves, drug users or witches. The kids are ashamed, and have an inferiority complex. But I tell them not to let anyone call you a witch, that you have to fight for your rights and respect,\u201d she said. \u201cI\u2019m not ashamed to live here. I\u2019ve been to Bangkok and New York and Washington, DC, and I\u2019ve held my head high, representing the poor.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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In the capital of the Philippines, youth play a game in the Manila North Cemetery. <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

As it continues to accompany the people of the cemetery, KKFI has also launched a skills training program for youth. They\u2019ve held classes in cosmetology, tailoring, dress making, and massage therapy. Even with the requisite skills, however, it can prove difficult to find employment, so early this year KKFI began negotiating with the owners of an electronics factory under construction about training the youth for employment in the plant.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

According to Mr. Eliver, KKFI hopes to help youth break the cycle that keeps them in the cemetery.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201cThe people living in the cemetery get married and settle there among the dead, then their children get married and settle there. The livelihood of the parents becomes the livelihood of the children. The parents probably didn\u2019t finish school, and they don\u2019t have the resources to get their kids to finish school,\u201d he said. \u201cWe\u2019re trying to change that pattern so that kids can dream of becoming something other than a caretaker of old tombs.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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A father walks his son through the Manila North Cemetery. <\/em><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

The Rev. Paul Jeffrey is a United Methodist missionary and senior correspondent for <\/em>response. Because cemetery guards deny entry to journalists, he climbed over the back wall of the cemetery to research and photograph this story.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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